Here I am back with some amazingly positive article of mine. Each day we come across some things, incidents and trifles that annoy us, irritate us and sometimes we think that we cannot go further. But then something happens, we get up holding our spirits high and move on. Today I gonna discuss with you my favourite topic of life and that is positivity. I belong to those people who always try to understand life from a different perspective and today I would love to share my positivism secrets for life. Let’s get going…
1. Move The Lens of Life
In life it is very important to set up some goals, targets and achievement points. generally, we focus on small things like, what is my neighbour doing? what is he upto with his new girlfriend? why my parents ain’t like my friend’s brother? Just adjust the lens of your perspective. Are these things really going to matter in your life? No my friend, never!!! Set some goals, just put your 100% to fulfil those goals and then when you will achieve it, you are going feel the immense time.
2. Please yourself not people
Never underestimate yourself, your personality, your emotions and your strengths. Do not be a person who tries to please everyone. In life, it is your happiness that matters the most. When you feel clipped or caged, or humiliated, be your own support, fight for yourself and let people know that you have got your own aura that shines in you.
3. Accept Yourself
Sometimes, we take people’s opinions so seriously that we start hating ourselves. Sometimes our haircut, how we smile, how we walk, how we eat and talk. Do not take these things so seriously. You are perfect the way you are. Make sure you possess a beautiful soul and heart that love and care truly and you are the most beautiful person on this planet.
4. Never Judge
Life gives you thousand reasons to smile and win but we sometimes we become so judgemental about things and people that we skip many opportunities. We think of people first and then about ourselves. We shouldn’t judge people by their clothes, social status and their way of carrying themselves. I remember a quotes ” I have seen beauty in people who were called ugly and I have seen devil in the most angelic faces.” Get the meaning and imbibe into your personality.
5. Listen More
Usually our tendency is that we want others to listen what we say, but you know what, the best way to understand life better is to listen others carefully. Each and every person you meet have something to teach you, to enlighten your soul and to guide you. Listen to their stories, experiences and mistakes they made in their lives. Speak when you think is the best time to speak, when people are ready to understand you not when you want to prove yourself better than other. It is like 6 and 9 situation, if it is 6 for you from one side and 9 for someone else from other side then it doesn’t mean the person on other side is wrong. It is all about the way of perceiving things.
That’s all for today. Guys life is too beautiful to take it for granted for anyone. You are here to live this life completely without regrets. Live to love your life that way it is and the way you make it for you.